Do you know what interest people most?
Could it be to have the fastest bank account? Buy the best car in town, own a
duplex, be a millionaire or what have you? The above mention scenarios are very
different from what interest people most. What interest people most is
THEMSELVES. They are largely concerned about their own good. Most people don't
care about the welfare of others. Over 70% of the world population capitalizes
about themselves.
In most hospitals, before a doctor
starts treatment on accident victim or a patient, money must be deposited. He
won't care if the patient is dying but care about his job and the hospital's
policies. My question is; is the hospital policies or the doctor's job more
important than a life?
Someone can own the whole world but if
you take a critical view of his family, relatives or even friends they can't
boast of a square meal a day. So many dreams are procrastinated before it comes
through because of others. there are people who are talented in different areas
of life like in; dancing, singing, modeling, writing, and sports, name them but
their talent and dreams are still hanging. Some of this talented person even
has rich relatives, friends and parents but the support is not there. Some
people feel that if they help someone, that the person will end up being better
than they are but that isn't true. Remember the line ' Givers never Lack'.
I love one of the US rappers SNOOP DOGG
for one thing. He is dream groomer, he helped his nephew LIL BOW WOW to pursue
his music career and get the best out of his dreams in life. Bow wow was just 9
when his uncle SNOOP DOGG wholeheartedly groomed him up in the music scene, he
didn't had a biased mind that BOW WOW will someday be better than him but he
took it as his responsibility to do so. Today where is SNOOP DOGG and BOW WOW?
They are two superstars, though SNOOP remains BOW WOW'S mentor.
In a group, family or organization,
when only one person is succeeding it means that he has not succeeded because
others may not be 100% happy for him, some will even find ways on how to
eliminate him or her. However, if this same person helps in one way or the other,
no one will have any outlandish or strange feelings.
Let me tell you what happened in
Southern Nigeria, a young man who was blessed with riches, he has the best of
cars, Estates, companies, name them but he refused to carter for anyone not
even his children education, he had an erroneous belief that he has everything
to himself and nobody can help him in any way. However, the story continued
when one of his sons managed to see himself through education and became a
medical doctor. The Youngman who had paraded himself earlier on discovered that
he is suffering from Sexually Transmitted Disease, which he contacted from one
of his sex objects.
He went every nook and cranny in search
of the cure of his ailment but nothing seems to work out. He sold almost all
his belongings just to have himself cured but nothing still seems to workout.
The juice is that his son whom he had earlier on denied education is the only
qualified medical doctor to handle such ailments. What I'm I saying? what goes
around comes around. I agree with Thomas Edison (one of the world greatest
inventor) with his thought-provoking quote "show me a thoroughly satisfied
man and I will show you failure" success is not all about having your
present needs, it also about having your future needs.
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